Monday, May 12, 2014

55 facts about Me!

1)   My name is Ace Khoo Swee Lin, but only "Khoo Swee Lin" on my I/C because unfortunately my parents did not put "Ace" there even though i grew up with that name.

2)   I'll be turning 18 on the 21st of June 2014. 18 & legal baby!

3)   I play piano. I started lessons with my mum since I was 6.

4)   I play drums. I had 4 and a half years of lessons at Euphony when i was 12.

5)   I play guitar. I started a year of lessons when I was 15 to get the basics.

6)   I play the Cajon percussion drums and the ukelele as well. So clearly i love music!

7)   I can cook and bake simple dishes and desserts.

8)   I work part time at Kidzania Kuala Lumpur- best job ever!

9)   I speak English, Bahasa Melayu, Mandarin, Hokkien and Japanese-Yes i took Japanese lessons.

10) I used to hate make up, or heels and I claimed that I would never use either of them. I was wrong.

11) I fell in flats 2 years ago during the chinese dinner event. A year after that during senior prom, i could run and i was dancing the whole night in 4 inch heels. Yes, miracles do happen.

12) I don't cake my face in make up but I do like to use it when I feel like it. Benefit's Primer, Maybeline's Hyperline eyeliner and Benefit and Sephora's nude eyeshadow are my favorites.

13) My jersey number is my favorite number - 69.

14) I was born in Penang. My whole family is from Penang.

15) I went to SJK(C) Damansara during my primary years and SMK Bukit Rahman Putra for my secondary education. High school won, hands down. I hated my primary school life.

16) I used to be really insecure. I'm better now but I do get insecure at times.

17) I'm extremely talkative. Hazard alert. Once you get to know me better, i become even more talkative.

18) I'm Christian and I'm proud of it. I'm spiritual, not religious. I'm not your typical Christian girl. I love God very much and I thank Him for all I am today.

19) I am chinese and 1/4 Indonesian. My dad is sorta mixed Chinese-Indonesian and my mum's Nyonya so yay!

20) I want to do A-levels and then law. My backup plan is to turn to mass com or the English field.

21) My dream is to travel the world and get to stay wherever i want, whenever I want. My favorite countries are 4 season countries!

22) I love animals and I'm against animal cruelty. I am in love with all dogs, dolphins, penguins and fat, fluffy cats. Oh, and unicorns.

23) I don't like reptiles. At all. I have phobia to snakes.

24) I will defend what is mine and I will crush you the moment you try to shake me. I will not stop until you are destroyed and I am satisfied. But that only happens if you really get on my bad side.

25) I'm usually really nice. I like people who don't cause problems for me.

26) I can be really, really, reaaaaally bitchy.

27) I love camwhoring and taking selfies.

28) I love getting mani-pedis with my mum.

29) I love reading. I'm sort of a secret bookworm-nerd.

30) I love the 50 shades trilogy, the Hunger Games trilogy, Harry Potter, the Twilight Saga, Divergent trilogy. Both books & upcoming movies.

31) My favorite authors are Enid Blyton(childhood), John Green, Jodi Picoult, Nicholas Sparks, Shakespeare, Jane Austen, Jeffery Archer, Jackie Collins and Cassandra Clare.

32) I love TV series as well. I have tons of favorites such as Revenge, Glee, Sherlock but my all time favorite is - DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES. I love re-watching the whole thing from season one.

33) I love movies. I LOVE THEM. Animated or not, I still do!

34) My movie buddies are usually ZSC (Yenn, Foong, Jian Chuan), 4meansforever (Xuan, Cyan and Pei), Winnis, and Kavin.

35) I'm not really an emotional person. So no i don't cry during sad movies.

36) For presents, I love personalized and sentimental items.

37) I absolutely love extremely long, long, long posts on how you feel about me.

38) I used to debate in high school, 3 years straight but not anymore.

39) I have a huge and extended photowall in my room.

40) I am not a light packer. That means wherever i go, no matter how long, my bag has to be heavy.

41) I custom my dresses and order it from my mum's tailor because I'm very, very picky with dresses.

42) My all time favorite brand of shoes is Converse. I love Vans for sneakers as well. For pumps and heels, i love Primavera, Daphne, Charles & Keith and whatever's beautiful and long lasting.

43) I absolutely hate wannabes ( especially lala girls) who love giving you the stare for no apparent reason when you walk in a room.

44) I had to learn the hard way that not everyone is nice. That there are users, hypocrites and jealous bitches waiting for the fall out.

45) I love all my friends who remain faithful and loyal to me, those who love me tons for who and what I am. You know who you are ;)

46) I love my immediate family very, very much. For the extended, I adore mum's side grandpa, e-e and koo, as well as ChimPo Gillian, Ghee ko, Teik ko, Sim chee and Sharon!

47) I don't like sports, i don't like the outdoors. I like ice-skating though, but I'm so-so only.

48) I used to have trust issues. I still do.

49) I love vintage accessories and plush toys, the cuddlier the better!

50) I am extremely obsessed with the red balloon emoticon on the emoji keypad.

51) My favorite drink at Starbucks is Choco cream chip.

52) I love rave parties, parties, and hangouts, or movie outings. Or lunch dates ;)

53) My standard in guys are apparently really high, but according to 4meansforever, my taste is really bad. I want a guy who is able to communicate well with good grammar, not perfect, but good. Someone who knows what topic is appropriate. Likable, sociable, understanding, responsible, matured, loyal, intelligent, funny and sweet who would accept me for all I am. Oh, and dresses appropriately. I cannot stand guys who wear jeans and slippers. That's the definition of rempit. Such a turn off.

54) Yes, there is a special sweetheart in my life. We know our priorities, don't worry.

55) My all-time favorite Disney Princess & movie is Ariel from the Little Mermaid. She's full of wonder and curiosity. Oh, and I absolutely love Frozen.


This post is dedicated to EnQi, that sweetheart who asked me to do it on ask.fm more than 3 months ago. So sorry for it being so late my dear! Stay amazing!

Thursday, May 8, 2014

Reputation. Rumors. Haters.

As humans, no matter how many times we deny it, reputation and namesake plays a very important role in our lives. However, if you really don't mind people going around backstabbing, gossiping, spreading rumors and thrashing you behind your back, hats off to you.

During some point in our lives, or right now, we have all encountered so-called talented twats who had decided to be the author of GossipAboutMe.com, starring you. We stand up and try so hard to convince ourselves that we don't care about the rumors because they aren't true and that we have better things to do. Yes, I'm talking to you. Don't try to hide it. You know you've done it. However, I am so sorry to tell you that deep inside, a part of you cares. Very much indeed. 

I admit I DO tell myself I don't really give a flying unicorn's ass when judgemental know-it-alls go around spreading rumors and gossiping about me, when in reality, I do. I'm only human. It is human nature to actually care. Unless I've done something massively wrong in the eyes of society, I will never understand the shallow ignorant snobs who actually have the non-existent balls to thrash and backstab me with my back turned but not the actual balls to do so to my face. Magically, when they come face to face with me, they smile and act like they care when all they want is the opportunity to gossip and make up rumors about me, waiting for the fall out. They fly around like vultures. Bloody hypocrites. 




Here, I would like to elaborate about the different types of people there are in this cobweb of disaster.

1) The Jealous Bitch.
Yes, the Jealous Bitch is the one who starts the ball rolling. The hater who starts up the rumors and gossip. If I were to continue blogging about the Spawns of Satan of this category, It will never end as there are not enough words and adjectives in the Oxford dictionary to describe these geniuses. 

2) The Cronies of The "Sacred" Inner and Outer Circle.
Every Jealous Bitch has her "Sacred" "inner" Circle and the weak and fearful participants of the Circle are called The Cronies. Be it in the Jealous Bitch's Inner or Outer circle, The Cronies have an extremely wide, clear and empty vacancy at the part of their heads where their brain should be. Unable to think logically or process information, the Cronies take everything and every rumor or gossip fed by their Almighty leader, The Jealous Bitch, to do their duties as honorable and loyal followers to spread the spores of the lies all over the place. 

3) The Rumor Arsonist.
An Arsonist is a person who has the tendency to set things on fire. He or she may enjoy doing so as well. The Rumor Arsonist, as the name tells you, loves pouring even more gasoline over the fire already burning just to "spice" things up. This group of people are extremely blessed to have so much time on their hands to worsen the condition of things instead of worrying about their own lives.

4) The Leavers
These are the ones who choose the rumors over you. They will actually walk away from you because of some ridiculously absurd reason. It hurts like hell, but eventually, you'll see they weren't meant to be.



Fortunately, a few good things can come out of this. The first being, of course, you'll come out stronger. Secondly being how with all this going on, you'd get to see the true colors of everyone around you. That's right, you'd get to see which of your friends are true to you, which of them will stay and trust you, or fall into the rumors and go. It's really painful to see friends leave, where their true colors and trust plays an important role. If you have friends, especially close friends, who choose to leave you because of the rumors, they were never your friends from the start. 

For me, I used to be upset and frustrated about it but now, I look at it as a blessing in disguise. If they so easily choose the rumors over you, how much will they betray and hurt you in the future?
Always look on the bright side, with every friend who leaves, a cut is made and a scab is formed. It is your choice whether or not to pick at it. 
If you pick at it, it'll bleed and you're back to square one, reliving the hurtful memories and never recovering or moving on. 
If you let the scab heal to become a scar, a lesson is learnt and you'll be wiser and stronger in the future.

Damn straight.

Don't let all the nonsense happening around to ruin your joy and happiness. They're not worth it. Keep living your life the way you want it. Life isn't worth it to be wasting it about them. That is a lesson I am learning as well. Smile, it'll kill them.